Just one of the reasons I view porn to be anti-woman is because it is used as a weapon against women.
You should see my inbox. Men who are threatened by the content of my blog sending me porn pictures and gifs in attempt to trigger me, dominate me, silence me, and put me in my place.
If that doesn’t speak volumes…
So there’s this post I’ve seen going around on my dash. It was reblogged by two gals that I follow, and really surprised me. The text reads: A body at rest wants to stay at rest. Unless it is being woken up by oral sex.
Then it proceeds to have a lot of porn gifs of guys eating girls out. This post originated from a porn blog, and this post was authored by a 21 year-old guy.
My issue with this is consent. You should never wake someone up by fucking them or in this case, eating them out without consent. That’s not sex, and that’s not fun…. that is assault.
I’m uncomfortable with the casual promotion of this idea, because it cruises right idea over consent. That is not okay. Consent is not something to be cruised over.
BREAKING: The street is completely blocked. There is probably a thousand people here right now. #Ferguson
- Crowds have blocked #Ferguson intersection in front of police dept.— Ryan J. Reilly (@ryanjreilly)August 30, 2014
Also, it took me a long time to be able to stand up for myself in a lot of ways, and not second guess myself for concern of other people’s (unimportant and irrelevant) opinions on myself.
I will not bow down from that. I’m proud. You can’t make me unproud.
Waiting to see if I get a follow-up response as to why I am am so entitled and terrible, but I doubt I will. People usually just want to yell at me on anon to make themselves feel better. Yawn.
But seriously, I’m looking through my activity archive and I don’t see anything that would elicit those reactions.
Confused, but curious.