I am However, just as exhausted, put-off, and disappointed, as I am every other time something this has happened. And it’s been a while since something like this happen, so it was just a matter of time.
What is the something I am referring to - Well, it’s someone who follows my blog (not a mutual follow) and then makes it their mission to slander me.
I didn’t want to respond to that thread anymore, because I am done trying to get rumpelstiltskinix to shut down their bullshit witch hunt, based off of ludicrous claims about me. However, I do want to contribute one final response on my own blog:
They start their most recent reblog by saying, “Everything that’s been exchanged by Feminish and I can be found in this post.” …. but then they go and start making things up again!? It starts with them saying they saw a post I made today that "reeks of prison rape jokes - dismissive, snarky, cruel". I haven’t even made any posts today, yesterday, the day before that… that have anything to do prison rape, which if rumpelstiltskinix really followed my blog, would know that is a matter I take very seriously.
What’s making me extra uncomfortable and weary of rumpelstiltskinix, is that they are re-writing a narrative that never happen. They go to cite sktagg23’s comment to me about actual female rapists statistics. This was in response to an ongoing discussion on how men make up examples of female privilege.
When I responded to sktagg23’s comment, I said “But two percent, it’s not that far off from forty percent… :-/” with the tags #sarcasm (so people wouldn’t think I actually thought those numbers were interchangeable and indistinguishable) and #that dudes logic probably (because the guy was desperate to not acknowledge male privilege that he was making up DV and rape statistics).
Clearly, that response of mine had nothing to do with belittling cases where a woman is a rapist, but addressing this guys fake statistics intended to silence and dismiss the idea of male privilege.
I don’t know why rumpelstiltskinix is still so gung-ho on trying to get people to believe I don’t care about cases when non- cis men are rapists after citing me for being the one bringing grrlyman’s situation into light for many people.
And surprise, surprise, rumpelstiltskinix, I also didn’t mock your reading abilities? That’s just another thing you’ve mad up. I certainly wouldn’t mock anyone’s reading abilities ever, but I would question your ability to tell the truth regarding anything about me after seeing how many blatant and unforgiving lies you’ve spewed about me over the past day. Jesus.
What’s worse is that in rumpelstiltskinix’s most recent response, they keep putting things in quotes and vaguely attributing it to me, so it looks like I’ve said some gross things, when it’s actually not quotes, but things they are projecting on me… and perhaps hope spread around the internet so people will not realize it’s something they’ve fabricated? I think I’m getting warmer…
There’s more to their response, but as I’m reading through it to respond, I realize that I’m tired now and it’s not worth it. It goes on with some bullshit about how I shame people all the time and dismiss anyone who claims to be raped by a woman as an MRA…. ????
Now, if not already, you prbably understand why I’m done even trying to talk to this person. I was hoping they just misread something I originally wrote and needed clarification. But that’s not the case. I don’t know what they want, and I’m tired of trying to figure it out. They just sound like an abuser with the way the have rejected everything I have said, and rewritten it.
I’m insulted because I spend so much time and energy, for no money, running this blog for other people. That’s right, this blog isn’t for me, but other people. I would say about 99% of the time I am giving something away, and 1% I am getting something back. This blog is draining, but I do it because it’s necessary and I care about people. I’m not here for bullshit like this though.
To have someone swoop in for whateverthefuck reason, say I’m just shaming and silencing, slandering me from top to bottom, and only have lies to back it up- that makes me sick. rumpelstiltskinix, you make me sick. Stay the fuck away from me, please. I have nothing new, and nothing more to say.