So I definitely just lost 20 followers after mentioning my abuse. Interesting.

My abuser bought me lunch.

I didn’t thank him. I actually felt bad for not thanking him, which is absurd considering he was also abusing me the whole time.

The food wasn’t worth it. I didn’t come out even or on top. I came out lower.

You don’t thank someone for buying you food when they decide to take your day and drag it to a further hell after it was already there.

fatphrodite:

thisiswhiteculture:

you people are fuckign savages

There are people laughing in the background what the fucking fuck

I’m not surprised they’re laughing because they turned a violent assault between intimate partners… into a (racist, misogynistc) skit. They all are shit. Every last one of them. The people who planned it, the people who acted in it, the people who watched it, the people who facilitated it. All shit.

fatphrodite:

thisiswhiteculture:

you people are fuckign savages

There are people laughing in the background what the fucking fuck

I’m not surprised they’re laughing because they turned a violent assault between intimate partners… into a (racist, misogynistc) skit. They all are shit. Every last one of them. The people who planned it, the people who acted in it, the people who watched it, the people who facilitated it. All shit.

(via killer-titz)

geekylittlecephalopod:

reblogalert:

boneycircus:


Nicholas Lord, a Navy sailor since 2008 currently on active duty, is under investigation after threatening to rape a young woman who is a Navy recruit.
The young woman posted a photo of herself on Facebook, captioning it to say she’s proud of how she’s working hard to get in shape for the Navy, and she’s excited to be leaving soon. The photo was shared on the page for her Delayed Entry Program for her fellow Navy recruits.
Nicholas Lord, who is not a current recruit and who has been serving in the Navy since 2008, then commented:
You’ll end up pregnant real soon you fucking wh***. If I could and I knew you, I’d hold you down and rape you.
The next day, Lord gloated about his threat on his Facebook page, updating his status to say he’d been “trolling feminist pages.” In case it needs to be said, the Facebook page for a Navy program is not a “feminist page.” It’s a Navy recruiting page. (x) (x)
I don’t know what the Navy’s punishment system is like, but I hope he gets the worst possible. I hope they investigate his past history in the military, too. If he’s bold enough to outright threaten female recruits, under his own name, on public, Navy-run social media, I seriously doubt he hasn’t harassed and threatened female sailors. He may even have raped them.
Especially given the military’s problem with letting men get away with harassment and rape, they need to severely punish him.

Send it viral, and he will see ramifications.

If you only reblog one thing today I hope it’s this.

Reblogging for signal boost, and to add TW

geekylittlecephalopod:

reblogalert:

boneycircus:

Nicholas Lord, a Navy sailor since 2008 currently on active duty, is under investigation after threatening to rape a young woman who is a Navy recruit.

The young woman posted a photo of herself on Facebook, captioning it to say she’s proud of how she’s working hard to get in shape for the Navy, and she’s excited to be leaving soon. The photo was shared on the page for her Delayed Entry Program for her fellow Navy recruits.

Nicholas Lord, who is not a current recruit and who has been serving in the Navy since 2008, then commented:

You’ll end up pregnant real soon you fucking wh***. If I could and I knew you, I’d hold you down and rape you.

The next day, Lord gloated about his threat on his Facebook page, updating his status to say he’d been “trolling feminist pages.” In case it needs to be said, the Facebook page for a Navy program is not a “feminist page.” It’s a Navy recruiting page. (x) (x)

I don’t know what the Navy’s punishment system is like, but I hope he gets the worst possible. I hope they investigate his past history in the military, too. If he’s bold enough to outright threaten female recruits, under his own name, on public, Navy-run social media, I seriously doubt he hasn’t harassed and threatened female sailors. He may even have raped them.

Especially given the military’s problem with letting men get away with harassment and rape, they need to severely punish him.

Send it viral, and he will see ramifications.

If you only reblog one thing today I hope it’s this.

Reblogging for signal boost, and to add TW

(via pizzamatriarch)

"Why can't men just learn to take a joke" they say the same about women. Please don't stereotype xx

They say the same about women.

That was the whole point of me writing that. All last week I was getting “Can’t you just take a joke” comments from guys pertaining to rape jokes and me just not “getting” them. The whole point was that men say that to women all the damn time. It’s their get out of jail free card.

That was the joke. And the guys hounding me didn’t get it (which, naturally, made it more funny).

And neither did you, but thankfully most people did. I mean, I wrote in all caps and ended it with two question marks. i thought it was pretty obviously a joke.

Also, there are a million ways that stereotypes are being used to actually perpetuate harm and hold the line on the status quo. I urge you to become concerned with one of those instead of my ways of combatting shit that I get from men on the regular.

can you please tag posts that feature rape (re: #iamjada post) it is extremely triggering for me, especially at this time of year. thank you. xo

I’m sorry. I thought I did, but apparently I did not - tagging now. xx

EDIT: Done!

Man to Man: Why?

Let’s talk about this like men.

Stop being such a little bitch.

Good job, ladies.

Man up.

I’m going to make you cry like a little girl.

Are you on your period or something?

You’re such a fucking pussy.

You scream like a girl.

Dude’s got a mangina, that’s why.